Hi. I’m not exactly your normal guy and it may take reading this a couple more times before you are able to remember what you’ve read., so here goes. I’m an honest, respectful and trustworthy guy who is looking for a girl who can appreciate a man that appreciates them. I’m much more interested in pleasing you than I am trying to meet my own manly needs. If these two things are in the proper order, one takes care of the other. And I love to please you. It’s a turn~on for me. If you like being called, for no other reason than, just to tell you, “I’m thinking of you.” or that, “I miss you & I love you.” Then you may find me worthy of your attention. I like sending flowers to where you work or to where you live; if I like you a little more than most I have (and will) pick you wildflowers myself. I’ve noticed that girls really like that. In my younger days of actually writing songs, I also wrote poems. I have no problems writing them for you if I am given reason to or, really, even if you don’t give me reasons to. I open doors for my girl, pull out and push in chairs, actually, speak to you when you come home from work, ask you how your day was. I say, “Please.” & “Thank you.” I don’t mind helping to do dishes, fill up the car, help with the laundry, cook suppers, go to the grocery with or without you. In my opinion, it takes two people helping each other to actually have a happy and successful relationship. It will certainly, reduces the stress factors. I am so tired of drama queens, ladies; if you’re a controlling, self-centered, manipulative woman, please don’t bother saying ‘Hi’ to me. I’m just simply not interested in all the jealousy and misplaced trust; it is such a waste of time Only mature, rational and morally sound minds are welcome to contact me. , don’t bring lies, irrational expectations and unwarranted, illogical behavior with you. If these things are an issue for you now OR in your past, let me know in your messages and maybe we can help each other to understand the proper way to start off together. All I ask is that you appreciate my stance and unwillingness to allow these types of behavior and conduct into my life.
I enjoy watching movies. It doesn’t matter if it’s at the theatre or at home. I’m just as happy curling up in front of the fireplace with you, with a nice warm blanket and a bottle of wine and watching a couple movies. Good things have happened under those blankets. I really enjoy KISSING, especially, if you are a good kisser. I’ve been able to kiss for hours on end with a girl who’s willing to take the time to get there and feel & see everything there is to see & feel getting there. After all, we are both going to the same place, if you know what I mean?
There is one thing you ALL SHOULD KNOW. I was in an accident years ago that nearly took my life. I have no internal issues and need absolutely no assistance; I have recovered OK, but I do have some major league scars. I lost some muscle under my left forearm and some muscle behind my left leg and buttock area. It’s not “gross” or it doesn’t look so bad you can’t stand it. But there are scars. Most girls say it doesn’t bother them & I hope it won’t be a factor for you. If you even think this may be an issue for you, with all due respect, PLEASE DON’T CONTACT ME. My scars are not what makes me who I am. I bleed red, I have a heart and my feelings can be hurt just like yours. I REALLY DO judge you by your character and heart,…….NOT by your faults, your looks, your physical scars OR your mental scars from your past. It has taken an incredible amount of mental toughness the past few years to be able to even think about being with someone, especially physically. All the necessary parts work very well; I have absolutely no problems in this area. NONE. I can still go for hours on end. I need a woman who sees past my scars, as they are not issues of the mind for me any more. I really hope to hear from you soon, Gene.

Cancer

Average

5' 10 (1.78 m)

Brown

Caucasian

Divorced

Yes - Not At Home

Hair

Visible Tattoo

Dark Brown

Dog

Some College

JOLT/Jack of All Trades

Alone

Friends Come Over Occasionally

Yes - Trying To Quit

Average Joe

Outgoing

Computers

Sleeping

Going to a Pacers game; Taking my dad's pontoon out; to a restaurant of your choice; going to see a movie; ANYTHING my lady would like to do, I'm a guy that's not hard to please.

Cool

Christian

Once A Year

Leaving my children with less burden than most parent's leave their children. Setting up the grandkids college fund to help my son's to be in the realm of possibilies to send their kid's to college.
I want to make my wife (YOU ???)HAPPY and content with your husband (me) and with your own life.
To please God by doing His will, ...NOT mine. Helping others without expecting pay, or favors or even notariety in some cases. I don't need to be payed to do God's work. I get paid in more ways than one, all you give is measured back to you.

Sports

Adult

Gospel

Thoughtfullness

In my opinion, it takes two people helping each other to actually have a happy and successful relationship. Hopefully, my girl compliments the person I am.
. I am so tired of drama queens, ladies; if you’re a controlling, self-centered, manipulative woman, please don’t bother saying ‘Hi’ to me. I’m just simply not interested in all the jealousy and misplaced trust; it is such a waste of time Only mature, rational and morally sound minds are welcome to contact me., don’t bring lies, irrational expectations and unwarranted, illogical behavior with you. If these things are an issue for you now OR in your past, let me know in your messages and maybe we can help each other to understand the proper way to start off together. All I ask is that you appreciate my stance and unwillingness to allow these types of behavior and conduct into my life.
I hope you are a good kisser; I love it. I can kiss for hours. I can kiss you (in and on) so many ways: softly, passionately, sloppily, hard, etc

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