WARNING: THE WORD ROMANCE WILL BE MENTIONED MAYBE ONCE OR TWICE...IF YOU SUFFER WITH A WEAK STOMACH PLEASE DO NOT READ ON!!

I often here men say "What do women want?"...well here it is fellas...I'm going to tell you what I want, what I really, really want! (OMG ...did I just quote a line from the Spice Girls...welll thats another 30% of you running for the hills!! LOL) Here's a "little" light reading for all you guys out there...

"My Perfect Man"....

My perfect man would call me beautiful instead of hot...he would kiss my forehead and squeeze me tight and stay awake just to watch me sleep. He would hold me close after making love until I fall asleep in his arms. He would think about me morning, noon and night....and call me just to to hear my voice. He would call me back if I hang up on him....and apologise when he's in the wrong. He would know how to make me smile and always be trying to find new ways to do this. My perfect man would want to show me off to the world whatever I look like and hold my hand in front of his mates. He would constantly remind me how much he cares for me and how lucky he is to have me. He wouldn't try to wind me up or make me jealous or try to worry me unnecessarily. My perfect man wouldn't avoid my questions but instead he would sit down and explain things that I was concerned about. He would be interested in what I have to say and listens to how my day has been. He'd try and cheer me up when I'm down, and offer to massage my back after a hard day...or tell me to put my feet up and make me a cup of tea...and when things get really bad...a man that will come back with tampax, paracetamol, wine and chocolate when i scream "you should be glad you're a man!! you dont get periods!!" and then comforts me and goes off to do the washing up without being asked!!! ;0) lol (or the ironing???...yeah right!!)
But above all else...

My perfect man is a guy who accepts all of this in return...but never expects it or takes any it for granted.

My perfect man would be the one who turns to his mates and says ...'that's her'...'that's my love, my soul mate'...'thats the one I want to grow old with'

Too much to ask maybe?? lol...well at this point theres probably only one or two of you left by now anyway....

so...let's face facts...I know that "Mr Perfect" is a little too much to expect and I would really be happy with someone who I can trust, who makes me feel relaxed, who I can have long conversations with about anything, have lots of fun with and more importantly be the best of friends with...as this is the key to any good relationship wherever the journey may take us! Lifes too short to be miserable, I want to enjoy life as much as possible and would love someone to enjoy it with!!

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