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| I Would Describe Myself As | This is truly my philosophy of love!! I believe, ideal love is really only obtained between two sincere, mature and independent people. It is our inner struggle to perfect these attributes that is the key. Real love is not two people clinging to each other; it can only be between two strong people secure in their individuality! True love should not change who we are. It is a process that expands on our ability to cherish, not just one love, but all people. It can make us stronger, lifts us higher and it will deepen us as individuals. Yet, in the end, we can only partner with somebody who somehow "fits us". The same is true of friendship. Only to the extent that we enhance our lives, can we hope to develop wonderful bonds of the heart in the future. We can lose ourselves in romantic attachment, but the truth is, the euphoria is unlikely to last for long. Indeed, the likelihood of undergoing suffering and sadness only grows over time. As long as we remain unable to redress our own weaknesses, we will be miserable no matter where or to whom we commit to. We can never become truly happy unless we ourselves undergo a personal transformation, one that we are comfortable with. At times daily life can seem all too drab and unexciting. Living itself can sometimes seem a strain, and few of us realistically expect what joy we feel, to last forever. However, when you fall in LOVE, life seems filled with excitement. We feel like the leading character in a novel. But, if you get lost in love just because you are bored, and consequently veer from the path you should be following, then love is nothing more than escapism. What you are doing is retreating into a dream world, believing in an illusion. Unfortunately, you realize it wasn't at all what you thought it would be. |
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| Sign | Pisces |
Appearance & Situation
| My Body Type Is | Athletic |
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| My Height Is | 6' 0 (1.83 m) |
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| My Eyes Are | Black |
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| My Ethnicity Is | African American |
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| My Marital Situation Is | Single |
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| I Have Kids | Yes - At Home |
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| I Want Kids | No |
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| My Best Feature Is | Arms |
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| Body Art | Other |
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| My Hair Is | Bald |
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| I Have One Or More Of These | No pets |
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| Willing To Relocate | Yes |
Status
| My Education Level Is | Some College |
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| My Current Employment Status Is | Self-employed |
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| My Speciality Is | Administrative / Management |
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| My Job Title Is | Green Build Consultant |
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| I Live | Alone |
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| At Home | All Is Calm |
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| I'm A Smoker | No |
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| I Drink | Yes - Socially |
Personality
| Back In High School, I Was A | Jock |
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| My Social Behavior Is | Boisterous, Party Starter, Flirtatious, Outgoing |
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| My Interest And Hobbies Are | Exercising, Arts & Crafts, Sports, Family, Dining, Theater, Travel, Cars, Volunteering |
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| My Idea Of A Great Time Is | Trying New Things, Relaxing, Going To A Concert |
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| An Ideal First Date Would Be | On the beach in Cobo having dinner. |
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| I've Always Wanted To Try | Ski diving |
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| My Friends Describe Me As Being | Friendly, Cool, A Flirt |
Views
| My Religion Is | Christian |
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| I Attend Services | Never |
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| My Political Views Are | Democrat |
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| My Goal In Life Is | My goal is to build a Green Build Construction company. |
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| My Kind Of Humor Is | Friendly, Slapstick |
Taste
| On Tv, I Always Watch | News, Documentaries, Dramas, Sports |
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| When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A | Romance, Drama, Thriller |
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| When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To | Rock, Blues, Jazz, Latin, Soul, Reggae, Gospel |
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| When I Read, I Always Read | News, Business, Fiction, Sports, Technical |
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| My Idea Of Fun Is | Being with a woman of substance |
Looking for
| What Do You Find Attractive? | Good Looks, Great Skills, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Power |
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| What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking? | Date, Intimate, Committed |
