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Age 42 From Chicago, Illinois - Online - Over 2 weeks ago
Woman Seeking A Man

Basic Information

I Would Describe Myself As  
I'm 25 and out of my element.
Contemporary living, with vintage values. A LADY BY DEFINITION and birthright. Confident, Opinionated, "A thinker", Spiritual, Free spirited, A Nurturer, Strong but delicate. Classy and Classic, Genuine person and Genuinely Good hearted.

Very much a classic! In comparison: I'm like that one cherished object, trinket, moment or memory you keep around for years to come, and it never gets old. Still brings you the same joy it did when you first saw it, and it increases in value with time.

I love life! I love to travel, I enjoy spoken word, concerts, and theater (from Broadway to local community shows). I can hang out with the guys at a basketball game, playing cards, bowling or shooting pool (which I'm working on)

I'm an aspiring actress and model, but I'm currently working as a bartender and attending school, with plans of ultimately completing with Degrees in Psychology, Social Work and Marketing.

I'm very family oriented and belong to a few Social Societies. I also have a passion for volunteer work. I work with Red Cross, The Boomerang Foundation and I'm a Big Sister (Big Brother/Big Sister).

I'm a ball of contradictions (in a good way). Mysterious, but at the same time I'm an open book. Reserved and planned, but Wild and Spontaneous! (I'm also a terrible speller, I'm checking a lot of these words in the dictionary as we speak LOL)

I live with Passion and I follow how I feel!

I'm changing everyday, so the people in my life would tell you that we're both learning "me" together! :) that's the fun part and more than likely what they love most about me.

The beauty of life, is there's so much to learn and do, only until you can't learn or do anymore. "Until then it's just a matter of connecting the dots"... I think I just described myself in that statement!...EPIPHANY! (see, learning together :)

There are no mistakes in life, everything happens with reason so I move with PURPOSE!

I'm sure I've covered everything :) but if there's anymore (if I haven't scared you away :) then you'll have to talk to me to find out ;)
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Appearance & Situation

My Body Type Is  
Athletic
My Height Is  
4' 11 (1.5 m)
My Ethnicity Is  
African American, Native American
My Marital Situation Is  
Single
I Have Kids  
No
I Want Kids  
Yes
My Best Feature Is  
Smile
Body Art  
Pierced... But Only Ear(s), Strategically Placed Tattoo
My Hair Is  
Dark Brown
I Have One Or More Of These  
No pets
Willing To Relocate  
Yes

Status

My Education Level Is  
Some College
My Current Employment Status Is  
Part-time
My Speciality Is  
Entertainment / Media
My Job Title Is  
Bartender/Actress/Model
I Live  
With Parent(s)
At Home  
All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker  
No
I Drink  
No

Personality

Back In High School, I Was A  
Cool Dude
My Social Behavior Is  
Reserved, Shy, Observant, Friendly, Comedic, Party Starter, Flirtatious, Outgoing
My Interest And Hobbies Are  
Exercising, Reading, Music, Movies, Games, Clubbing / Bar Hopping, Dancing, Family, Dining, Photography, Theater, Travel, Playing Cards, Volunteering
My Idea Of A Great Time Is  
Hanging Out With Friends, Partying, Going Shopping, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Playing Dress-up, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum
An Ideal First Date Would Be  
In my opinion, the date starts with the phone conversations, I expect him to, in his "getting to know me" get a feel for what I'd like and how best our chemistry together would play in the date.

If we're both fun and outgoing(friend type):
Dinner and something upbeat. Take advantage of what the city has to offer, see a live show.

If were more reserved and classic: 1st I would like a man that doesn't mind dressing for the occasion.
I would LOVE a nice dinner in an elegant restaurant and see a play or maybe go dancing.

Something different, outside the regular "dinner and a movie"
My Friends Describe Me As Being  
Friendly, Someone They Want To Be, Cool, A Flirt

Views

My Religion Is  
Spiritual But Not Religious
I Attend Services  
Once A Month
My Kind Of Humor Is  
Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly

Taste

On Tv, I Always Watch  
Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies, Re-runs
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A  
Action, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Family
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To  
Country, Rap, Pop, Classical, New age, Dance, Soul, Gospel
When I Read, I Always Read  
Auto-biography, Biography, Business, Fiction, Instructional, Philosophy, Reference, Poetry, Religious
My Idea Of Fun Is  
What's fun can be determined by the company your with. With the right person, anything can be made to feel like a day at an amusement park. From Bowling, Ice skating or going to a sports event, to the simplest of Spending a Day playing in Wal-mart, walking in a major city like a tourist, or spending a Sunday afternoon driving and house hunting.

Fun is how you feel at the time and how you feel about who your with.

But just for the sake of an answer: I Looove to travel, comedy shows, active entertainment, plays, movies, concerts. Or an imprompt water fight while washing the car, all night board games, shopping cart racing in a parking lot, snow ball fighting, adults playing tag.

It's all about how you feel. Whatever the heart wants.

Looking for

What Do You Find Attractive?  
Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great Skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Money, Power, Wit, Thoughtfullness
What Do You Look For?  
Fist I look for confidence. A man that makes his presence known. A man who's aware of himself, self assured but not arrogant (absolute turn off) Humility is an underrated, high valued quality. Respectful is an absolute must, I don't mind a man who speaks his mind, but a man that treats women with respect. Someone who understands that the way you are and the way you communicate with other people is a true reflection of who you are and how you feel about yourself.

I look to see how attentive he is to me and other people. Someone who walks with me and not ahead, some one who holds my hand to help me out of the car or down the steps when I'm in heels. Who'll let the visor down if he sees I'm squinting or will turn the heat on when he notices my coat is on and my arms are crossed.

A man with good communication, wit and humor are an absolute plus. Where you can talk like old friends and subjects change without long dead silence.
I look for a man who's we'll maintained, clean sh
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?  
Friend, Date, Committed
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