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NCOceanGuy Profile Information

I love Christmas and the holidays :)
Age 59 From Raleigh, North Carolina - Online - Over 2 weeks ago
Man Seeking A Woman

Basic Information

I Can Speak  
English, Russian
I Would Describe Myself As  
I can honestly say that God has blessed my life in many ways up to this point and I owe a lot to Him. I have truly taken that “road less traveled”, and as Robert Frost says, it has definitely made a difference. I spent several years life traveling the world for work. Before that I was working on my education and degrees. Instead of getting married, having children, etc. before I was ready, I took a lot of time to focus on learning a lot more about myself and human behavior, while also growing in my faith and learning the importance of keeping Him first. You might describe me as a hopeful passionate romantic and a mixture of many things...old and new...northern and southern. I have a wide variety of interests and am not a man of few words...neither spoken nor on paper. However, I do have a shy side too My non-denominational Christian fellowship is also a very big part of my life. I believe what the Word says and that God knows the desires of my heart….knowing that eventually He will bring that person into my life. Feelings and intelligence are things I value. I do not smoke, drink or do drugs, but I do like to have fun. And...I do do dishes...lol. I have a successful career working as an instructor, consultant, project manager, etc. Currently I am also working on my doctoral degree. I have been up to the top of the Eiffel Tower…eaten pizza in Italy…watched the waves crash on the shore of Japan…and much more. My place near the beach is furnished and my refrigerator is covered in magnets the world over. I have had the pleasure of traveling to some beautiful places, met many members of our military, and made lots of friends. :) However, as Kenny Chesney says, there is one thing I have not done. I am interested in settling down and experiencing life with the woman God intends to be my "traveling partner". I desire to really have time to really get to know each other on a one-on-one basis and build a strong relationship with an underlying best friendship...
Sign  
Leo

Appearance & Situation

My Body Type Is  
Slim
My Height Is  
6' 0 (1.83 m)
My Eyes Are  
Blue
My Ethnicity Is  
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is  
Never Married
I Have Kids  
No
I Want Kids  
Not Sure
My Best Feature Is  
Eyes
Body Art  
Wouldn't Even Think About It
My Hair Is  
Brown
I Have One Or More Of These  
Cat
Willing To Relocate  
Yes

Status

My Education Level Is  
College Degree
My Current Employment Status Is  
Full-time
My Speciality Is  
Computers / Electronic
My Job Title Is  
CyberSecurity Project Manager
I Live  
Alone, With Pet(s)
At Home  
All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker  
No
I Drink  
No

Personality

Back In High School, I Was A  
Quiet One
My Social Behavior Is  
Friendly, Observant, Reserved, Shy
My Interest And Hobbies Are  
Camping, Cars, Computers, Dancing, Dining, Exercising, Family, Internet, Learning, Movies, Music, Photography, Playing Cards, Reading, Religion / Spirituality, Theater, Travel, Tv
My Idea Of A Great Time Is  
Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Going To A Concert, Reading A Book, Relaxing, Sleeping, Staying At Home, The Movies, Trying New Things, Tv
An Ideal First Date Would Be  
Talking would definitely be important...preferably it would be somewhere that allowed us to converse and really get to know each other. "Firsts" are important to me, so I would want it to be memorable regardless of what we did. I like the idea of making up the rules together as we go. It would be nice to be able to look back on that day years from now and remembering... Yes, I am sentimental...I also still believe in things like courtship and opening the door for a lady. The best first date is the one which stands out as "special" and "unforgettable"...with two people feeling intellectual and emotional chemistry.
I've Always Wanted To Try  
I can honestly say that God has blessed my life in many ways up to this point and I owe a lot to Him. During my life, I have truly taken that ?road less traveled?, and as Robert Frost says, it has definitely made a difference. I spent several years life traveling the world for work. Before that I was working on my education and degrees. But there was much more to it than that. Instead of getting married, having children, etc. before I was ready, I took a lot of time to focus on learning a lot more about myself and human behavior, while also growing in my faith and learning the importance of keeping Him first. I know that when the time is right He will bring my life together with the right lady. Part of me is more modern and another part of me is old fashioned. I am not the kind of man who just wants to rush and just be with "someone". What matters to me is being with the right one. After dating I would like to get married and continue to make important decisions together.
My Friends Describe Me As Being  
Friendly, Cool

Views

My Religion Is  
Christian
I Attend Services  
Once A Week
My Political Views Are  
Middle Of The Road
My Goal In Life Is  
Personally, I would like to live a beautiful life with my partner and God as the foundation of our relationship, experiencing many firsts to fill up scrapbooks. Professionally I have already accomplished a lot. Right now I am working on my doctorate.
My Kind Of Humor Is  
Friendly, Goofy, Obscure

Taste

On Tv, I Always Watch  
Dramas, Movies
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A  
Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Family, Thriller
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To  
Blues, Classical, Country, Dance, Folk, Gospel, Jazz, Pop, Rock, Soul
When I Read, I Always Read  
Business, Classic, Computers, Fiction, Health, History, Instructional, Music, Poetry, Romance, Religious, Science, Science Fiction, Technical

Looking for

What Do You Find Attractive?  
Empathy, Good Looks, Great Skills, Humor, Intelligence, Oddities, Passiveness, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness, Wit
What Do You Look For?  
Hello pretty girl :)

Are you a unique, sweet, giving, spontaneous exploratory lady of God in your 30's or 40's who loves sharing new experiences? Do you love God and his Word? Would you describe yourself as beautiful both inside and out?...passionate, affectionate, empathic, kind, caring, soft, tender, and sweet...strong but not tough? Are you a hopeful romantic who still dreams? Do intellectual conversations stimulate you? Do you like the idea of reading and studying with someone?...growing together spiritually...and being "equally yoked"?

Do you like to hike, bike, swim, camp, work-out, dance, etc? Are you a good cook? Do you like cats and the ocean? Do you dream someday of having a beach house? Are you spontaneous and creative? Do you like the idea of just hopping in a vehicle and seeing where the day takes you?...perhaps a nice seafood restaurant on the North Carolina coast?...maybe to the Blue Ridge mountains or the Smokies?...possibly to a lighthouse? Do you enjoy eating at different places, trying new things, dancing, etc. Do you like surprising someone as well as being surprised...making up the rules together as you go?

I am really not worried about someone's net worth. The deeper things matter more to me. What is important to me is that my partner is someone who can contribute and carry their own weight. Two good incomes are better than one. Mutuality is a huge concept with me. I believe in sharing many things...including responsibility. Real meaningful relationships are a shared two-way street.

It would be nice to meet someone with similar interests and values as myself who loves God and His Word, and who is as passionate as I am...beautiful both inside and out…affectionate, empathic, kind, caring, soft, tender, and sweet...strong but not tough...a hopeful romantic. As the country song says, things just aren’t as much fun “till you put a girl in it”. Would that be you? Please tell me more about yourself and have a wonderfully blessed day :)
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?  
Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed
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